Most of the cards are written in a way that won’t guide a person toward a specific or “preferred” answer. It’s meant to be a party game rather than an ethics course, after all. I like how you responded to questions 2 and 3, though.

As to question 4, it feels a bit like high school – at least high school I saw on TV. I didn’t date in high school. I’m assuming these are two people I like but one I like a bit more for some reason. I wouldn’t break the first date because that’s kind of mean. I’d arrange some other night for the other person.

In terms of not dating people I don’t like.. if it’s dating via online set-ups by cupid.com or plentyoffish, it’s not unusual to wind up arranging a date with a person who seemed likeable online but sets alarm bells clanging once you’re in the same room. Then I might wish I’d cancelled and gone with the other guy…

I can’t say for question 1, because I can’t imagine a circumstance in which I would be in that situation. I would never go to “a nude show” in the first place.

Question 2 depends a lot on context. What is my charitable organization? Will this money, via my organization, keep more than one person alive — thus providing a reason to use it to save those people instead — or will it just plant a few flowers around the city? Is this widow young and likely to live a long life, or is she in her 80s and only alive via immediate medical intervention? This question is too brief of a description to give a definitive answer.

Question 3 is likewise too simple, but I can give a tentative answer: make the woman sign a notarized confession before witnesses, but agree not to press charges as long as she stops doing it, and notify everyone what to watch out for. (After all, we don’t have proof that it has been going on for very long, and pressing charges might well cost more than the loss.)

Question 4: no, because I try to abide by Miss Manners’ dictates, and in those circumstances the rule is “first come, first served”. Although I must add that, as with question 1, I can’t imagine being in this situation — I wouldn’t make a date with someone I didn’t like in the first place.